Today, for Indians, is a holiday known as Raksha Bandan or Rakhi. It’s a holiday that celebrates the bond between brother and sister! Traditionally the sister ties a rakhi, a bracelet, on to her brother, and in return receives a gift. Along with this ceremony comes prayers and lots of sweets- all conclusive to the sister praying for a lengthy life for her brother, and the strengthening of the siblings’ bond.
I am one of two sisters, but that doesn’t mean I don’t celebrate rakhi!
For me, the term brother defines a relationship- and not necessarily a biological one. A brother is a male in your life who has a piece of your heart, but not romantically (Obviously lol). He is a person you go to for advice, and to relieve your chest of all worries. He’s a shoulder to cry on, and a trusty body guard. He is your best friend, your biggest critic, and your biggest supporter. He’s someone you feel you need approval from, essentially another parent. He is one of the only people you can hate and want to strangle, but then love and want to attack with hugs all within ten minutes. He could be older, or he could be younger- he is someone you care about as much as you would your own blood.
I have a special few people in my life that fit the definition of brother. Today is a day I’d like to remind them how appreciative I am that they put up with my nonsense and still love me unconditionally- I would honestly be a train wreck if I didn’t have them to pick me up when ever I’m down. Biology is only a small percentage of what makes a relationship- the rest is all in the heart!
Whether you’re Indian or not, go give your ‘brothers’ and ‘sisters’ a hug, and thank them for being the wonderful pillars they are in your life!
Cheers to these two weirdos for being there no matter how annoying I am- Love you!!
Happy Raksha Bandan!
-J
Chak De Phattey! 